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CCUSD: How to Help Your Children in Wake of Connecticut School Shootings

The Culver City Unified School District has issued a series of steps families can take to help their kids in the days ahead, including taking part in a project to send cards to the families of Sandy Hook Elementary School.

The following letter was sent to all Culver City parents with children in Culver City Unified School District schools:

Our thoughts and prayers go out to all of those touched by Friday morning's devastating shooting at Sandy Hook Elementary School in Newtown, CT, and while this senseless act has left many of us distraught, there are ways for all of us to help:

Talking to Your Children

The biggest question children are likely to have is whether something similar can happen to them. Parents should reassure them and help them feel safe while also providing age and developmentally appropriate information.

Here are some tips for talking to your children about the shooting:

Take care of yourself first. Calm your own fears and anxiety before talking to your children. They pick up on your emotions, and your calm demeanor will go a long way to reassure.

Turn off the television and other media. Graphic details and images can be upsetting to all of us. Younger children may think that the event is happening over and over. Tuning in for the latest is tempting. Pace yourself with the news and listen in only when children are out of earshot.

Consider the child's age when deciding whether to bring it up. A preschooler may not know about the event and probably doesn't need to know about it. Answer questions if they ask.

Be proactive with older children. You can start the conversation with, "You may have heard about..." and ask what questions they may have.

Help the child understand that it is OK to feel sad or angry that this happened.

Reassure and emphasize their safety. Discuss the steps that adults in their life take to keep them safe, such as their schools' safety plan and safety measures taken at home.

Help your child find ways to cope with his or her fear and grief. Providing outlets like artwork or imaginative play can help them process their feelings. Draw on ways your family typically copes with a crisis such as sending a card, making a donation as a family to help the victims or praying together.

If you or your child needs additional help dealing with this tragedy, be sure to contact your doctor or mental health provider.

Reaching Out:

Individuals and classes throughout the Culver City Unified School District will be mailing cards and letters to show their solidarity and support for those touched by this tragedy. If you would like to join them in writing, please send your cards and letters to:

Sandy Hook Elementary School

12 Dickenson Drive

Sandy Hook, CT 06482

The Newtown School Board is requesting that, in lieu of gifts, donations be made to the Sandy Hook School Support Fund at Newtown.uwwesternct.org or mailed to:

 

Sandy Hook School Support Fund

c/o Newtown Savings Bank

39 Main St.

Newtown, CT 06470

Remember to keep in mind the first responders who have had also to deal with this tragedy. Letters of support for the police officers of Newtown, Conn., can be sent to:

 

Newtown Police Department

3 Main Street

Newtown, CT 06470

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